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7 simple steps to success on your Tinder date

Tinder date trouble

Wassup bro,  If you applied all my tips and tricks from other blogs, I know one thing for sure:  You will have a lot of dates.. Unfortunately, this doesn’t automatically imply that your sex-life is booming. I’ve met loads of students who regularly went on dates, but whose right...

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7 flirt tips for smart guys

Flirting tips for smart guys

Ingredients of attraction between men and women To be successful with a woman, no matter if it is at a bar, through an association or through a group of friends, there are a couple of things you need to understand. There are a few ingredients you need in order to become really successful with women,...

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5 tips to get out of the friend zone and fix the nice guy syndrome

Getting out of the friendzone

In Love: When you're in the friend zone I was 16, and my social world consisted largely of one friend, Alpha Arie, who I drank beers with every weekend. The rest of the time I spent at the computer. Until one day I got a message on a chat site from a girl from Groningen. Let's call her Friend-Zone...

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7 Kissing Tips: How To Kiss Without Any Reservation

Kissing tips

The right moment to kiss Well yeah, as a dating coach, I am pretty good at kissing at the moment, but it hasn’t always been like that... There once was a time when the only thing keeping my lips wet was my lip balm. I remember my first girlfriend. She was a friend of a friend. After chatting...

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What to do if she does not reply your text messages

What to do if she does not reply your text messages

About attracting women and text messagingI could write a hundred articles. The subject will never stop to amaze me: women that do not reply to text messages.

After a nice text-conversation (conversation over text) with with a women you like, she suddenly stops replying your messages. WTF?...

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Opening lines: the 12 best openers for men

Opening lines for men One night I went to my favorite club in Amsterdam, it was a deep house party with some of my favorite DJ’s, I went there with two women.More friends where already there. I had the intention NOT to pick up any women that night and just go wild on the music. I was totally...

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Does she like me? Take control with these 4 tips

Does she like me

Signals that she likes me During the last SummerBootcamp in Barcelona, I coached a participant in one of the popular clubs, Shoko. He was a good looking guy, but something kept going  wrong anyway. At one point, I just saw it. Every time he walked up to a girl or tried to talk to one, I saw him...

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Dating younger women

Dating younger women

Age difference a problem? A lot of women date guys that are a few years older. This is also visible in relationships. Usually the guy is at least a few years older than the girl. Why? There is a certain attraction in the age difference between a man and a woman. The other way around, what is so attractive...

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Romantic ideas for dates to seduce a woman

Romantic ideas for dates

Romantic dates: Cool tips, but do they work? Often these days it’s being said that romantic stuff doesn’t work anymore with the ladies. In some degree I agree with that. But that has to do with the fact that romance is often confused with cheesy BS. Like arriving with flowers and bonbons...

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voice exercises for a charismatic voice

voice exercises for a charismatic voice

Voice excercises for an attractive voice. This blog is about how to train your voice so that it will have more charisma. This seems to be hard to explain using non-verbal methods like text on a screen. But it is suprisingly easy to understand how unattractive monotome speaking is when you literally...

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Rebound relationship the solution for a broken heart?

Rebound relationship

How to handle a broken heart A rebound relationship is a ‘in between relationship’ that you have after an important relationship in your life has ended. You are still getting over your last relationship and having a new relationship or flirt makes the heartache of the last one go away for...

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Chatting online: 8 powerful tips

Chatting online

Online chat: the new way of dating Chatting, SMS, WhatsApp, Viber, Facebook-chat and Tinder (my favorite!) are all examples of media that allow you to talk to women without actually being fysically close to eachother. This is good because chats are often an effect of a short interaction with a woman....

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How to be a gentleman (9 Tips For Real Men)

How to be a gentleman

Where are all the gentlemen? A gentleman, a real man, are they still around? Is it still something from this day and age? Yes sir! When you look around into the gentlemen-scape, you’ll see the art of being gentle making a comeback. In films, hair, clothing and even music. Gentleman elements....

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Seas of women who want to be picked up

Seas of women who want to be picked up

Online dating is a fantastic way to pick up women. We now live in a day and age where insane amounts of women are just a click away from us. Dating women online gives you through certain datingsites the potential to meet hundreds of women. This doesn’t mean that it will totally replace approaching...

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Milf Dating Tips

Milf Dating Tips

MILF is short for Mother I Like To Fuck. An older lady that you find sexy and with whom you’d like to have sexy. It’s a fantasy of many guys and there are a number of reasons why a MILF is so attractive to some. Maybe it starts with the teacher at high-school, who knows. There is something...

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Fashion advice to stand out from the mass

Fashion advice to stand out from the mass

As with everything in life, when choosing the clothes to wear and your style, it’s all about finding the right balance. You don’t want to come across as to ‘put together’ and styled. This is try-hard and unattractive. On the other hand, you don’t want to disappear in the...

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When to kiss her? The right moment to kiss her

When to kiss her? The right moment to kiss her

Knowing when she wants to be kissed So you’re out, going to an event, bar, club or party. You’re wearing your best outfit and you feel awesome. Once there, you get into the vibe and see a girl you really like. You’re starting to talk and she likes you too. You talk an laugh a bit...

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Hank Moody: 7 lessons about picking up women

Hank Moody: 7 lessons about picking up women

Hank Moody is one of the best roles of this natural charmer, David Duchovny. Hank Moody, the star from ‘Californication’ can give you some clear insights on how to pick up a woman. Yes, of course he drinks to much and smokes to much. And yes, he gets himself into a bit to much trouble and...

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Opening lines chat

Opening lines chat

When you start chatting with a girl you like on an online dating website you are looking for opening Lines or your chat. What do you say to make the right first impression? What works great are intelligent and non-needy opening lines: I was reading your profile. I like that fact that you…...

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Do women like sex?

Do women like sex?

With this question I instantly have your attention don’t I? Good! A friend asked me this question not to long ago: “Do women like sex?”. There is a simple and a long answer to that. Yes, women like sex just as much as men do, is the short answer. The answer I give my friend was a bit...

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Good Conversation Topics For Better Dates

Good Conversation Topics For Better Dates

Conversation Topics For Dates Hey Player, this is what you don’t want… “Hi, what is you name?”
“My name is Lisa”
“Where do you come from Lisa?”
“West Palm Beach, Florida”
“Do you study?”
“Yes,...

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Date ideas for a first date

Date ideas for a first date

Our first date – how it began I had a date with Nice Girl. A few night before we met at a club. She was sleeping at a friend so the evening ended with ‘Was a shame. I think we could’ve had amazing sex.’ She agreed so I asked for her number. Our plan was to make cocktails. I...

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Going out alone and picking up women

Going out alone and picking up women

The art of going out alone Let’s face it. Going out alone is something most people are scared of. That’s why it is some incredibly awesome if  you DO go out alone. You’re forced to go outside your comfort zone and trust on self-entertainment. As a coach and also as a pick-up...

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More dates with Tinder (online dating tips from a woman)

More dates with Tinder

I don’t know any of my female friends who isn’t using Tinder, but unfortunately often times without success. They do have a lot of good looking matches but it never works out. Most conversations start with ‘Hi’ followed by ‘How are you’ and ‘good, thanks’...

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Flirting and eye contact tips

Flirting and eye contact tips

What do your eyes tell about you? Do they tell what you are actually thinking or what you are trying to communicate? Or worse, did you ever start staring? It probably happened to you some times. You go out one night and see a beautiful woman. However, you don’t feel confident to look her in the...

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Kissing tips for beginners

Kissing tips for beginners

Kissing tips for beginners When is somebody a bad kisser? Most women will give an answer like: “boring, not passionate”, “too much tongue!”, “I don’t know, there was no flow” or “I didn’t really feel it”. The real question is, how will you...

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Meeting Cute Guys (Its Possible, These 8 Tips Will Kick-start Your Lovelife)

Meeting Cute Guys

Meeting cute guys: How and where? Yes, we don’t discriminate. Also the women on this blog have their right on fun dates & romance ;-). And what is the #1 question asked by single ladies: ‘Do cute guys still excist?’ The answer is: Yes! Duh. They excist, you just got to know how...

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Is she ready for sex?

Is she ready for sex?

When is she ready for sex? Sooner or later a beautiful woman will end up in your bed when you flirt with and date a lot of women. How it happened is not important for this article. Once you have her in your bed the temperature rises. Awesome, but now what? When is she really ready for sex: The penetration? It’s...

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Things to talk about on a date

Things to talk about on a date

There are two very distinct aspects when we are talking about the subject of things to talk about on a date. Namely the way in which we talk and secondly the topic or content of what we say. Expecially on a first date these are even more important. What to talk about on a date A lot of guys are wondering...

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What to talk about on dates, date ideas

What to talk about on dates, date ideas

This is how you have stuff to talk about on dates Whether it’s your first conversation, a second date, or just a flirt, it’s still difficult. What should I say or talk about? People regularly ask me: What conversation-topics are best to flirt with a girl? These topics give you something...

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The best opening lines you will ever hear

The best opening line you will ever hear

The best opening line you will ever hear from a dating coach Of course I wouldn't take my job seriously if I didn't methodically write down every smart, funny, original opening line I come accross. I have been doing so the past two years with my mobile phone. It has grown into a huge list of the best...

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How to handle fear of commitment

Women and men with fear of commitment

Fear of commitment is a bitch... This time I am writing about the fear of commitment. The fear some people have of committing you someone. Both men and woman experience this. This fear is based in being afraid someone will leave you when you open up completely. The fear of abandonment and the fear...

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Online dating: first message

Online Dating First Message

Insider tips for first messages on dating sites You’re on a dating site en see that one special lady. What to send as a first message? Or maybe you already sent dozens of messages but never get a response with online dating. What’s going wrong? I am going to tell you exactly how to write...

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7 Original Date Ideas That Women Will Thank You For

7 Original Date Ideas That Women Will Love

7 original date ideas that will make you stand out from the crowd So you decide to take her out for dinner. There you are, sitting right in front on eachother… Uncomfortable silences… You feel the pressure to keep the conversation going… Then the bill comes – right, dilemma...

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Date cancelled, now what? 4 tips that will save your date

Date cancelled, Now what? 4 tips that will save your date

So your date cancelled the date. She calls you something important happened, or worse, an excuse-text. Or even worse than that, she didn’t show up. Well first: Shit happens; It’s all in the game my friend… Secondly, fortunately there are some things you can do when a woman cancelled...

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How to get your ex back

How to get your ex back

How to get your ex back when she doesn’t want to talk to you anymore When you and your girlfriend just broke up, you are probably going through a tough period. Maybe you’re (literally) sick of it. Or you don’t have the energy and don’t want to see anyone. How do I know? Because...

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Love SMS to seduce her

Love SMS to seduce her

Seductive text-messages Loving and seductive text-messages cause miracles! How awesome would it be to arouse her through your text-messages so she actually asks you to come by? Out of pure lust and arousal that you caused. What an amazing feeling! In this article I am going to tell you how to become...

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Does sex on the first date ruin your changes of a serious relationship?

Does sex on the first date ruin your changes of a serious relationship?

What does sex on the first date mean? You hear it quite often. A friend fixes a date (Tinder is popular these days), they flirt a bit, meet each other and have wild awesome sex on the first date. And because they have sex the first night, their relationship is automatically centered around sex. But...

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How To Make A Man Happy In A Relationship

How To Make A Man Happy In A Relationship

How Do I Make Him Happy In Our Relationship? A article for a our sweet female readers! It’s short but powerful. Inspired by my best friend, a mate who is a true natural Don Juan. Ohhh man. During elementery school I was already jealous. He got all the attention from the girls. Luckely everybody...

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Picking up women by ignoring them

Picking up women by ignoring them

Everyone knows that when you can’t get something, you slowly start to want it more and more. This works for everything. Not only things you want but also experiences and people. You go to the local store but unfortunately the thing you came there for is sold out. Be honest, you probably want it...

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The best pick up lines

The best pick up lines

Best pick up lines Even the most experienced and successful guy in the field of picking up women will tell you he has a number of pick up lines he uses on a regular basis. Some lines are just fun to repeat over and over. I am not telling you you should have a complete routine ready. I’m talking...

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Getting and keeping the guy

Getting and keeping the guy

Picking up a guy is easy. But how do I keep him? You made eye contact with me. You started talking, had a drink together and appeared to have lots in common. He asks your phone and at the end of the evening he kissed you. Magic! This lead to a date and another one and another one. You have a wonderful...

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Body language secrets. This is how you know shes in love with you

Body language secrets

Can you tell by someone’s body language if they’re in love with you? Are there body language signals that tell you that a woman is madly in love with you? Yes! First, a woman will look at you as if she’s very interested and admires you. With big eyes. Another signal is when she’s...

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Friends With Benefits Tips

Friends with benefits

Friends with benefits are what a lot of single guys want You can call them or text them whenever you want, let them come to you for sex and send them home without a bad feeling. Why? This is because you both agree that all you do is have sex together. What usually means that you do not harm each others...

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Approaching women

Approaching women

Do you recognize this? You’re in a club or in a supermarket and see a girl you really like. You want to approach her and talk to her but an anxiety withholds you from doing anything. What should I say to her? And what if she rejects me? Talking to women can be hard. I am going to give you some...

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First date tips

First date tips

First date tips 101: create the perfect first date Here’s my definition of a date: Beware: at first some of your dates might be as awkward as Tom Cruise’s appearance on Oprah. But that’s okay bro. You do realise that your biggest failures in life are actually way more interesting...

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